In other words, due to her fast burn-fast decay SMV, and recognized or not, she will eventually need a Man more than he needs her when he enters his peak SMV phase and she’s declined to the Wall of her own. There will eventually come a time when a woman’s SMV will decay to the point that her necessitousness will exceed her value. However, it is important for a Man to bear in mind that his SMV (Sexual market value) will eventually exceed that of any woman if he continues to improve himself and grows personally, physically and financially into his SMV peak years. From The Rational Male – Positive Masculinity: We’re giving them the message, he says, that “boyhood is defective.”Ģ. As psychologist Michael Gurian argues in The Wonder of Boys, despite the testosterone surging through their limbs, we demand that boys sit still, raise their hands, and take naps. They feminize boys, forcing active, healthy, and naturally rambunctious boys to conform to a regime of feminine-correct obedience and pathologizing what is simply normal for boys. Elementary schools have been “anti-boy” for several decades now, emphasizing reading, communicative feminine learning styles and restricting the movements of young boys. Women now outnumber men in the social and behavioral sciences by about 3 to 1, and they’ve moved into such traditionally male fields as engineering (making up 20 percent of all students) and biology and business. In the next eight years women are predicted to earn almost 60% of bachelor’s degrees in U.S. At universities women now constitute the majority of students, having surpassed men in 1982. Boys get lower grades on standardized tests of reading and writing, and have lower class rank and fewer honors than girls. Boys are diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder at six times the rate of girls. They get into fights twice as often, murder ten times more frequently and are fifteen times more likely to be the victims of a violent crime. From Positive Masculinity:Īt present, boys drop out of school, are diagnosed as emotionally disturbed, and commit suicide at four times the rate of girls. I realize it’s a tall order, but strive not to let your personal feelings color what I lay out for you here. For others, you might feel some kind of vindication for getting burned by your ex and realizing what was at play when it happened. Some are not complementary of women and some of men, you’ll think I’m a misogynist on first glance because it’s the default response you’ve been taught to react with.

Some of these concepts will grate on the investment your ego has in certain beliefs about how men and women ought to relate with each other, while others will validate exactly the experiences you may have had personally with them. You will violently disagree with some of these concepts, and others will give you that “ah ha!” moment of realization. I ask you to clear your head of the preconceptions you have of gender because what you’re about to read here are very radical concepts concepts that will challenge your perspective on women, men, how they interact with each other, and how social structures evolve around those relations. They’re also blunt and written specifically for men, so this is not a perspective that is concerned with women’s feelings. The quotes you’re about to read are contrary to everything you’ve probably seen on TV, in movies, and that you’ve heard in popular culture. Now, before we get into the best quotes from Rollo Tomassi’s books (and all of these quotes are from his books), let me make one request of you: keep an open mind. I also liked his next two books, The Rational Male – Preventive Medicine and The Rational Male – Positive Masculinity. He’s married, has a background in evolutionary psychology, and has never struck me as a sexist or a “woman hater.” I found Rollo Tomassi’s first book, The Rational Male, to be extraordinary.

The best of the “red pill” gurus is Rollo Tomassi.

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